Sights That Amaze

Today we drove into south Mumbai for the day. I got to see some things that are truly amazing which I’d love to share here!

We started the day visiting Dhobi Ghat, a famous open-air laundromat. I visited Dhobi Ghat in 2013 but it was raining so there really wasn’t too much to see. Today, however, was a warm and sunny day so there was PLENTY to see! It is amazing how they manage to get all the clothes clean and manage to keep track of it all, too! I also took Maddie Angus with me 🙂

On our way there, while stuck in traffic, I noticed some men cutting branches from a tree. When I looked up, I saw a man way up in the tree cutting the branches with a hacksaw. There was no ladder anywhere so he must have climbed the tree and he wasn’t tethered to anything. AND he was barefoot! I was simply amazed! We drove away with me shaking my head.

Dhobi Ghat

Dhobi Ghat

Dhobi Ghat

Dhobi Ghat

Taking Maddie to Dhobi Ghat

Taking Maddie to Dhobi Ghat

Something else I saw was something I saw the last time I was here. I saw an entire family riding on a motorcycle. The man was driving, the woman was behind him, and between them was a sleeping baby girl. I can’t even imagine what people would say if they saw that back in the States.

It was kind of fun being stuck in traffic. More than once, I could feel the eyes of people in cars or on motorcycles next to us on the road simply staring at me. In addition, after lunch I got up to go to the bathroom. I walked into the ladies room in the mall, which was crowded, maybe 8 or 10 women in there. As I walked in, literally every woman turned and looked at me. They didn’t just make a passing glance to see who had walked in. Maybe that’s what it started as, but once this blonde walked in, it became more of a gawk for a moment! I’m not going to lie; it makes me wonder if the way I felt walking into that crowded restroom is the way other people of color feel when they walk into a room of people who all look like me. It was an experience that gave me pause.

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A family on a motorcycle!

Safe tree branch cutting 101

Safe tree branch cutting 101

One of the things I really enjoy about India is that there is always so much to look at. Some of it is beautiful, like the palm trees, the clothes the women wear, and the colorfully painted trucks. Some of it is not so nice, like people living in abject poverty, garbage on the streets, and homeless dogs. But no matter what you are looking at, India never ceases to amaze.

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You Can’t Do It All So You Do What You Can

I do declare, it is getting easier for me to run in this hot, humid weather! I had a really nice run this morning. And while I was on my run, something interesting happened.

A couple days ago Brenda had noticed a cat in the park. Stray cats are not commonly seen around here, at least not as commonly seen as stray dogs, which are everywhere. The cat Brenda saw was a lanky, think cream colored cat. Like the dogs, the cat might be thin because it’s hungry or because the animals here might be built that way, or a little bit of both.

Skinny kitty in the park. (Photo credit Brenda Hanik)

Skinny kitty in the park. (Photo credit Brenda Hanik)

This morning, I saw the cat while I was running. It was just lying in the shade, paying no attention to me or anyone else. As I finished my run, I decided to do a couple cool down walking laps (it sounds almost ridiculous to say “cool down”). As I did my first lap, I stopped and poured a little bit of water out of my water bottle on the ground for the cat. She came right over to it. I kept on walking. As I approached her on my second lap, she was lying in her spot in the shade but when she saw me, she got up and came over to me, meowing, and rubbing up against my legs. I poured her a little more water because that’s all I had to offer, gave her a few scratches, and finished my exercise. I was amazed that after one little act of kindness, this kitty remembered me. But I probably shouldn’t be surprised. The stray animals here don’t always get a lot of kindness so when they do, they remember who treated them well. There is a mom dog and her three pups at my dad’s work that he and Ahmed feed every morning and my dad tells cute stories and takes adorable videos of these dogs and how excited they are when they see the red car pulling up. They remember. They know these guys are going to give them some yummy stuff.

Now, I’m sure there is likely somebody reading this that doesn’t see much heart-warming information in that little story. Maybe they are’t animal lovers. Maybe they get frustrated by the assistance people give animals but seem to eschew their fellow man. Well, what I can tell you is that from my perspective, they are all God’s creatures — people and animals alike, and I do what I can to help those who need it regardless of how many legs they have.

So just to make sure everyone knows that yes, we do care about the numerous homeless animals we see here in India but we don’t ignore the many people who live in poverty. The last time I was here, there were two instances where we provided food for children begging on the street. On this trip, we were barely out of the airport before our car was approached by a child begging for money. My dad and Brenda quickly rolled down the window and offered what they could. The plight of those who live in poverty here isn’t lost on us. But neither is the plight of the animals who roam the street.

There are so many people who live in poverty here. There are so many animals who are homeless and uncared for here. We can’t help them all, but we help as many as we can — people and animals.

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It Takes Some Getting Used To

Today is the first day I did not take a nap since arriving in India. I’m hoping that means my jet lag is finally gone!

While Dad was at work, Brenda and I worked around the apartment. The air conditioner in the master bedroom was dripping water so a repair crew had to come in to fix it. They were supposed to be here at 10:30 but it was after 1:00 when they finally showed up.

I worked on my Curriculet assignment — finished it!

Since I spent my time in the apartment, I thought I’d share a few things that are a little different here than at home.

For breakfast, I wanted to make a hard boiled egg. Simple enough. But first I had to get water. We don’t drink the water from the tap here; we drink bottled water. But cooking with bottled water can be expensive, so we use water from the filtration system installed in the kitchen. Then to cook the egg I had to turn on the gas and the electricity for the igniter on the stove to work. All outlets and electrical appliances are switched so it is not uncommon to see many switches on one switch plate.

Each room in the apartment has a separate air conditioning unit. A remote control is used to change the temperature, which is all done in Celsius. I am woefully inept at the metric system, so I can tell you that I keep the AC in my room set anywhere from 22 – 24 Celsius and I have no idea what that temperature is!

Taking a shower requires a little bit of advanced planning. The hot water heater needs to be turned on first. There is a separate switch for each water dispenser in the apartment. It takes about 10 minutes for the water to heat up, so you have to know you want to take a shower 10 minutes before you get in!

Some people might think things like the ones mentioned here are a hassle, but personally I find them to be part of the excitement of visiting another country!

The water filtration system

The water filtration system

The remote to control the AC in my room

The remote to control the AC in my room

The AC unit in my room

The AC unit in my room

The switches on the wall are for the igniter on the stove; the yellow latch on the pipe to the right turns on the gas.

The switches on the wall are for the igniter on the stove; the yellow latch on the pipe to the right turns on the gas.

Light switches in my room; the one on the right is for the water heater

Light switches in my room; the one on the right is for the water heater

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Chillin’ in the Heat

Another laid back day here in India. When my dad left for work, Brenda and I hit the park for some exercise. The park is a really beautiful venue for running and walking. Today was not quite as humid as the other day, so my run was a little easier. I also slowed my pace a little bit. It sure takes some getting used to, running in the heat and humidity. I should be ready for Illinois by the time I get back 🙂

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Brenda and I spent the day relaxing while dad was at work. I sat on the balcony this afternoon. There was a nice breeze and it was fun to see all the kids playing in the park.

For dinner, we walked over to a restaurant called Out of the Blue. They have a nice menu of a wide variety of food. It was a nice dinner.

After dinner, we went to Haiko, which is a grocery store. I wish I was allowed to take pictures in there because it is crazy how crowded it is! But I love going to the grocery store. There are so many cool things to see, both Indian items and American items that are packaged differently. For instance, they had strawberry creme and orange creme Oreos. Neither one sounded appealing so I passed on both.

After that we strolled over to Haagen Dazs and grabbed some ice cream. I took some video of the traffic again. The traffic here never ceases to amaze me. There is so much of it and it’s always so haphazard (emphasis on HAZARD!) and so noisy with all the honking. Brenda was a bad ass, though, and just stepped out in front of a bus and crossed the street! Like a real resident of India 🙂

We are just over a week away from leaving for Dubai. I am enjoying my time relaxing here in Mumbai, though. As I’ve said, I really enjoy the atmosphere of the buzz of people and activity all the time.

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The Rock Star Treatment

Sometimes you feel like a rock star. Like today.

The day started with watching hockey at 5:30 in the morning. Dad, Brenda, and I watched the Blackhawks smear the ice with the Anaheim Ducks to earn their way into the Stanley Cup finals.

We spent the day shopping at a mall. Once we arrived at the mall, the car had to be checked and we had to go through metal detectors and be wanded — women go behind a curtain to have this done by another female security officer. Just to go the shopping mall. They take their security very seriously in India.

At Viviana Mall, where we shopped today.

At Viviana Mall, where we shopped today.

I picked up a cute pair of shoes at the mall. The salesman fell allover himself taking care of me. He acted like I was Cinderella with the shoes. I also picked up some more beautiful Indian clothes in lighter colors for summer wear. I absolutely adore the clothes women wear in India. The colors and the fabrics are so pretty, and they are so comfortable! I’m telling you, Indian women know how to dress attractively and comfortably!

Ahmed carried my bags for me, which was very kind and a nice treat since when I go shopping at home, I’m the bag carrier!

While we were walking the mall, I noticed a group of three young Indian women, probably in their 20’s. I was admiring the bright hues of their clothes when they stopped and asked Brenda and me if they could take our pictures. We posed with each girl to have her picture taken with us. Thus happened the last time I was in India. It must be something about the blonde hair! It’s strange but flattering to think that I’m somehow “picture-worthy” even though I am a total stranger.

Being chauffeured around through traffic, shopping, having someone carry my bags, being stopped for pictures — it’s the rock star treatment.

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Out and About

This morning I decided to do my first run in Mumbai. Boy, did I get my butt kicked!

The park across the street from my dad’s apartment is a beautiful setting for a run. Palm trees and numerous exotic plants and tropical flowers and foliage are all around. I walked the path one time around with my GPS watch (which had to be mighty confused!) and found that the path is about a quarter mile around, depending on where on the path you walk/run. I asked my dad if there was any running etiquette in the park — should I stay to the right or the left, what direction I should run. His response was that the runners and the walkers in the park follow the same rules as Mumbai traffic. I said, “So I should stay to the left?” and he said, “No, that means you can go where ever you want to, there are no rules.” The majority of people were walking clockwise so I followed the flow of traffic. Running that direction, I have a slow but long incline and a short, steep decline. I could reverse it and I’d still have an hill that is a pain in the rear!

My dad caught a shot of me while I was running in the park this morning.

My dad caught a shot of me while I was running in the park this morning.

And here I am, sweaty and horribly red-faced after my run!

And here I am, sweaty and horribly red-faced after my run!

It was very warm (close to 90) and very humid. I managed 2.25 miles, but I readily admit, I had to run some and walk some. Maybe as I’m here longer I will be able to adjust to the heat and humidity and run more and walk less! But I haven’t run since Tuesday and it felt good. It’s also the last day this month I will get to run. I set a goal for myself to run 50 miles this month. After this morning’s run, I finished with 40.29 miles (I believe). So close!

We went out around lunch time for a walk to some shops in the area. I stopped at The Culture Shop which has all sorts of beautiful Indian items to buy. I love looking around there. Except the salespeople follow you around like criminals. I hate that, even in the U.S.

We walked through the galleria as well, which is an open air market. It’s fun to just walk around and look at everything and see all the people. I absolutely love the clothes that Indian women wear, so I enjoy seeing them walk around. I wish I were a more normal size so I could buy some of the clothes I see for sale here. But at some point we will be going to the mall and there is a store there that sells women’t clothes in my size, so I just have to be patient!

After lunch at Pizza Express, we stopped at a street vendor to pick up some fruits and vegetables. The thing we look for is produce you can peel, so we grabbed a pineapple and some bananas. The pineapple is different from what we have at home. This one was smaller and had light green spiky leaves. And it tasted divine. It actually has a coconut flavor to it. And lucky me — it’s mango season right now! So Dad is going to get some mangoes at the Reliance store when he goes to work Monday.

So far it has been a low-key day, which is fine with me. One of the things I really enjoyed about my last visit was how being here for an extended period of time lets you assimilate a little more rather than being just a visitor.

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Back to India

I am so excited to say that I am back in India! I had the trip of a lifetime two years ago and I must have sailed under a lucky star to have ANOTHER trip of a lifetime!

So far all I have done is travel. I arrived at O’Hare two hours before flight time and was glad for it since I needed to see a ticket agent and there was only one and he was busier than a one-legged man in an ass-kicking contest (I think that phrase was learned from my dad). The flight from O’Hare to Newark was uneventful, I assume, since once we were wheels up, I fell asleep. I woke up when the captain was announcing that we were landing in 25 minutes.

I spent a nice long layover in Newark. Grabbed myself a banana and a bottle of water ($4.00, please!). Lots of New York Rangers stuff being sold there. Should have work my Blackhawks jersey!

Brenda’s plane arrived and we boarded. We left Newark late but had fun talking and getting caught up. The mimosas were fun, too!

Mimosas!

Mimosas!

Brenda and me on the plane

Brenda and me on the plane

Overate ate dinner. But it was yummy! Fell asleep watching Clueless.  Woke up about 5 hours later.

Before dinner snack -- warm nuts and an Indian snack!

Before dinner snack — warm nuts and an Indian snack!

Appetizer -- chicken tikka skewer with mint yogurt.

Appetizer — chicken tikka skewer with mint yogurt.

Dinner -- Indian Vegetarian selection -- spiced mixed vegetables, cumin basmati rice, lentils with tomatoes and chiles, curried yogurt with okra, tomato-cucumber yogurt, and pickeled vegetables

Dinner — Indian Vegetarian selection — spiced mixed vegetables, cumin basmati rice, lentils with tomatoes and chiles, curried yogurt with okra, tomato-cucumber yogurt, and pickeled vegetables

One dessert option is assorted cheeses and grapes, but I'm all about the ice cream!

One dessert option is assorted cheeses and grapes, but I’m all about the ice cream!

Breakfast before we landed

Breakfast before we landed

The I decided to watch American Sniper which I have wanted to see but was hesitant. I have such a hard time with torture and viciousness so I was worried. This version said it was edited for content, so I am assuming some of the worst gore was removed because it wasn’t edited for language. Regardless, I was impressed. Powerful movie. Bradley Cooper was very impressive.

I also decided to watch my first Bollywood film, so I started watching Bang Bang. Sadly, I didn’t get to finish it since we landed. I’ll finish it on my return flight. What a fun movie so far, though!

It was so cute seeing my dad and Ahmed waving excitedly at us when we came out of the airport. Once we got in the car, everything became familiar again. The noise, the traffic, the people everywhere, the dogs, the heat, the humidity. In general, just the hustle and bustle of Mumbai that made me find the place so enjoyable the last time I was here. It’s always so alive.

I enjoyed a Kingfisher while I unpacked,

Kingfisher makes unpacking fun!

Kingfisher makes unpacking fun!

and now, at 1:16 AM I am writing this. Afterward, I will go to bed, still able to hear the cars 27 floors below me.

Excellent!

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Blogging A to Z — X, Y, Z

Today is the last day of the blogging A to Z challenge and I fell behind. In my defense, it has been a pretty hectic week! But I am bound and determined to finish this, so here are the last three letters of the alphabet!

XX is for the unknown — as in solving for X or the X-factor. I have a love-hate relationship with the unknown. Part of me hates it — it is uncomfortable and scary not to know what the future holds or what is going to happen or why things happen. It’s like straining your eyes on the dark, struggling with the unknown. But on the other hand, if it weren’t for the unknown, there wouldn’t be anything to debate or ponder or learn about. I love learning new things (that’s why I became a teacher — not because I love teaching but because I love learning) so when I encounter something I don’t know about, I enjoy learning about it. I’ll spend my life solving for X….

YY is for yogurt. A strange thing to write about, I realize. But I’ve never been much of a fan of yogurt but lately I’ve found some yummy ones that I enjoy! I love Greek yogurt with honey! I love for reasons to eat honey and Greek yogurt is a great reason! I have also discovered whipped Greek yogurt which is terrific! If you don’t like Greek yogurt because of the sour taste it has, trey a whipped version. No sour at all. I’ve also discovered this cream top yogurt which is to die for. The little bit of cream on the top really gives the yogurt some richness when it is mixed in! Then I also discovered by total accident coconut milk yogurt which is like silk in your mouth it is so smooth! If you’re not a fan of yogurt, now is a great time to retry it because there are so many different kinds out there now!

ZZ is for Zac. Zac is my friend Laura’s son. I never met Zac but Zac opened his life up for the world to see and learn from. Zac had schizophrenia and he allowed the world to see his life and his struggles and his triumphs. As soon as Zac was diagnosed, his mother dedicated herself to making sure her son was cared for which included eschewing her own life for all intents and purposes. It also included assuming huge amounts of debt and spending time advocating for her son as well as educating the world about metal illness. Sadly, Laura lost her son not long ago. His loss was felt by every person who knew him or knew of him. He was generous in his honesty. He used his life to make the world better by teaching us about mental illness. He left an indelible mark on this world. I never got to meet him but I am grateful I got to know about him. Please take the time to read this post from USA Today featuring Laura and her son Zac. It is called “The Fortunate Mother.” It is well worth your time. You can read about his death here. His bravery and his voice will be missed.

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Blogging A to Z — Without Charity

WFor today’s topic, the letter W, in the blogging A to Z challenge, I’d love to tell you  a little bit about this really terrific documentary I got to help out with called Without Charity, directed by my friend Paul Lyzun.

I got to know Paul after he was eyeball deep in this documentary. He offered to let me watch an early cut of the film and I was entranced. The story he documented was one I was unfamiliar with despite living relatively close to the setting, and his presentation of the subject was intriguing. Paul was able to tell the story of a woman connected to three murders from numerous perspectives in such a way that you were left with more questions than answers, which is a good thing! He approached the story from a well balanced and sensitive perspective, letting the viewer absorb all the information and really process it. No preaching. No pontificating. No lecturing. Just the story, which is heartbreaking and frustrating all at the same time.

I was involved in Paul’s project in such a minuscule way, but the final film was really impressive and I’m honored that I got to be involved in any capacity with such great work. I love to hear Paul talk about the films he has in the works and look forward to seeing them because he has a way of telling a story that draws you in and immerses you, which lets you decide how you want to experience the story for yourself.

Check out the information about Without Charity on IMDb.

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Blogging A to Z — Violin

VI am a day behind in the blogging A to Z challenge. My post for the letter V should have been done Saturday but I had a crazy busy weekend, so here I am now. And V is for violin.

People who know me now but didn’t know me as a child find it hard to believe that I used to play the violin. A violinist doesn’t mesh with the tattooed, loud-mouthed, cuss-like-a-truck-driver chick that I am today. But I was indeed a violinist. I played for about 3 or 4 years, if I recall my ages correctly, and I was actually pretty good at it, if people were to be believed.

I lived in Omaha from 1st-6th grade, and in Omaha at that time, orchestra was popular as opposed to band which is popular other places. I started the violin in 3rd or 4th grade and really enjoyed playing it. I got private lessons from a woman who played violin with the Omaha Symphony Orchestra, and I enjoyed having her as a teacher very much.

I remember she had me try unusual things to break my bad habits. For instance, I would swing my bow arm so she had me go through “Chinese Wall Torture”, where I had to play the violin with my bow arm stuck up against a wall so I wouldn’t swing it. I also used to flatten my left wrist against the neck of the violin so she had me tape a tack to the bottom of the neck of the violin so every time I flattened my wrist, I’d poke myself with the tack. That habit didn’t take long to break!

I quit playing the violin when I moved to Illinois in between 6th and 7th grade. Band was the big thing here, not orchestra, so nobody else played violin. I got teased and made fun of for playing the violin so I quit. It is on my top 5 list of things I regret in life.

I finally got rid of my violin a few years ago. A colleague of mine gave it to her son to play — he’s pretty talented. It made me happy to know my ax went to a good home where it would be loved and played!

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